So yeah.. this has certainly been a fun week to say the least. Notice the dripping sarcasm coming from that? I honestly didn’t think I could feel this low. I honestly passed depressed and went to blank. Monday this week I cut the inside of my lip deeply when I accidentally banged it on my car. It’s still hurting. Tuesday, my roommate was trying to fix the water heater in the outside closet and accidentally broke one of my mom’s lamps. I’m not mad at her, but I did all of a sudden feel very depressed about it. She died when I was 12, so everything I have of hers—in use, useful, or not—I cherish. My low mood killed a majority of what I’d planned to do that day, not to mention my shoot was suddenly cancelled. Wednesday my cat knocked over my vase of dried flowers that I’d had since I moved in to my townhouse, and had been working on for a year to get just right. Almost half the bouquet has been ruined now. Moving on to Thursday, I get news that I’m not where I need to be as far as my guitar, and with the timeframe we’re looking at, I won’t be ready in time; so I’m no longer the guitarist for Paris Oroborus. My afternoon was spent watching the 6th Harry Potter DVD, which I bought on Wednesday to counter feeling depressed: I tend to want to buy things when I’m depressed. And if my week wasn’t already complete... my car gets repossessed last night. Aside from clothes, and my domme bag.. I had my ipod, my prescription, my planner.. and oh yes… my wallet with my ID and Wachovia card. I managed to find out where my car is today, and I paid a service fee so I can go and get my stuff out of it. They’re open on Tuesday and Thursday so I’m going as early as possible to clear my car of everything. This week has me feeling more broken and beaten down than I’ve ever felt before. I have to say though, I do feel lucky that I have people who care enough—or are just that damn stubborn—to be there for me. You all know who you are and I love you for that.

And thank my wifey for the song that’s now stuck in my head.. heh.

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I’d like to take a moment to make a public service announcement for anyone interested in buying cybergear of any kind. Dementia Clothing is one clothing company that is NOT worth your time in the least. While she has some interesting designs, her business practices are far below standard. I am not writing this to flame Lectra Paris or Dementia Clothing; I’m writing this as a warning for people who are considering buying.


I personally have been waiting nearly 6 months now for items that were supposedly shipped 2 and a half weeks ago—so she claimed. Interestingly enough, she never gave me a tracking number, or any form of proof that she mailed my order for that matter; she merely changed my status on her site to “delivered”. Before that, it had been 5 months of receiving no response from her on a $92 order. In order to get a response, I had to threaten to report her to the Better Business Bureau, and gave her a deadline to respond to me, which she did just to buy herself some time. She gave me an excuse of not having enough money for shipping, to which I gave her an additional $10 to cover the cost. That is over $100 invested in an outfit. She has been ignoring my emails on purpose.


I am not the only one. She has not fulfilled orders for many other customers. Patrick Von Fatal of F1lth on Demand for example has been waiting for well over a year with no form of contact from Lectra. I have also heard personally that Jett of Vampire Freaks has also been very much screwed over by Lectra and Dementia Clothing. This is just a very small sample of what I’m sure are hundreds upon hundreds of others. Not only will you not receive your order, but you will not receive a refund either.


To back up my claims further, feel free to look at the Better Business Bureau website for yourself, where you will see she has a rating of F. I’ve included the link here: [link] She has already been reported 3 times, and I filed my report prior to typing this announcement. That’s 4 reports against Dementia Clothing.


I don’t know about anyone else, but had I known about this before, I would have not wasted my money on Dementia Clothing. I hope that others aren’t duped into losing valuable time and money; and to those who have: I hope you speak up as well.

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